1990. It was a civil ceremony in a judge's office, far from what seems to be planned for you, but the two things I recall are picking out my dress (antique velvet from the 1920's with beaded designs; the color was rust, the beads clear and boy, were they heavy!) and the next was our wedding brunch in a Korean restaurant. I enjoyed the recent movie Bride Wars with all its loveliness and the milieu of the Plaza. I've been to the Plaza but only for lunch.

Oh yeah, we videotaped the ceremony and the videotape was lost in a move. Urgh.